Have Fun - Your Life , Your Way

 

I was tuning my guitar to play some new random tunes & suddenly the doorbell rings… guess whoz there on the door; it was her (the crazy bee) my bestie.. she rushed inside and plop down on sofa and I was like hey watch out its my sofa yar plz have some mercy on it ;😂 … then her reaction tell something different.. oops someone seems like an angry bird…

Initially I was a bit scared coz of her groaning face so I started talking to her gradually… look @ your face babes, it seems like someone has splashed a water on you while you are walking down the street with the new clothes and you swear on that idiot… oh no, I guess I made her anxious now so I directly come to the point…

C’mon tell me now ... I cant bear any more suspense and then she bursted and worn her heart on my sleeves… “Do you know how you feel when someone is hampering your fun and constantly nagging into your life?” No matter whatever you do or wherever you go, the third eye and third ear follows you always…why cant people mind their own business and let others live happily? Why every time you need to answer their unnecessary and irrelevant questions?? Is it compulsory for them to poke their noses in each minute matter too… as if they gonna ask you our breathe count also… I mean seriously… I feel like running somewhere or ask them to get out….

After calmly listening to her, I interrupted her, “relax and chill..” to cool down her tempo I told her lets have some cold coffee and snacks, music .. a sort of complete hangout, fun and dhamaal…

So until I made a cold coffee and grab some plate for snacks, she was shuffling through magazines and tv channels in disgrace… as soon as I approached her I warned her not to speak and listen to me.. and then I began…

You know what just stop being nice and saying ‘yes’ to everything that comes to you … be kind always but no need to be nice and. Be honest, direct, sometimes rude and disliked, say No for yourself …. its completely ok.

I recently read this from a very good novel and learnt that “Stop buying the culture that hampers your individuality coz how we think, what we value – those you must choose yourself. You cant let anyone or any society determine those for you.”

After all its 1 life and 1 chance & I truly believe on Gaur Gopal Das theory , “ Making a few adjustment here and there, if we can improve relationships adjust. But if you are the only one who has to adjust always consider stopping it.”

With this conversion, real song hits the phone, “Apne jahaan ke hum badshah hai, masti bhara yeh apna jahaan hai…” 😎😈 dog always keeps barking pal & there will be plenty of them around…

Whats next!!! Well , she cheered up, understood the essence of her own existence and ignore  we laughed, we listened and rock on my another favourite song, “zindagi 1 safar hai suhana, yahaan kal kya ho kisne jaana.., maut aani hai ayegi 1 din , jaan jani hai jayegi 1 din , aisi baton se kya ghabrana, yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana..” 💓💓 Tata and see you in my next blog... and ya definitely awaiting your precious comments and thoughts too... 🙋