Yesss.....!! You r the BEST & You r also SPECIAL...!!! 😊😊😊

I had a cup of coffee in my one hand with headphones in ears and tapping the feet on the lyrics of the music saying - "koi hero yahan, koi zero yahan, koi estar hai, koi bekar hai, main kaun hun , tumse mein kya kahun, hai sach to ye dostoooo - I AM THE BEST...(3)" mast song na...here, a thought strikes my mind and it goes like....

Morning Buzzz....

Alarm buzzes but, I am sure its immediately snoozed or switched off.... loll

You are sprawling on the bed and your mom is yelling, 'still sleeping like kumbhkaran even when the sun is on your head... snatching your blanket and opening the curtains...😁😁 You are forcefully waking up, stretching your arms and still yawning... suddenly you are all awake with mom's smack😜😜'

Then while watching the clock, you hop out of bed, shouting on mom saying why she didnt woke you up a bit early (although she is screaming from last half an hour)... You gathered all your energy to get ready for your college, match, office or any task that you are getting late for.... with a bag in one hand and a mouth filled with half sandwich (or any other breakfast or a sip of milk, tea, coffee or juice) and by now you are out of the home...

Now you have reached @ your destination....

You receive your grades or score or appraisal and everybody start comparing it with one another...few faces light up while others become dull and start panicking with a flood of thoughts like where is the loophole, why I cant learn flattering, why the destiny is always against me, why I always stay behind and on and on and on..... isn't it?? 

Despite being grateful of whatever is received, the comparison acts as negative reinforcement but, who initiates it!? Its You , Me and Each one of us....

Not only @ workplace but, even in surroundings or in social life, people always sees the best in others and its easy to exemplify:

• Gossiping @ marriage function - My son / daughter is an engineer / doctor (emphasizing more on science stream and considering the people from commerce or arts stream are worthless or less skilled)

• Whispering @ office - He / She achieved more than what they deserved coz boss favors nepotism (but why cant you see the dedication and efforts behind his/her success)

• Siblings comparison - One of them is always outstanding in all the tasks while, the other is an average (the other one has their own ability like painting, dancing, speaking, writing - this reminds me of tare zameen par that make us understand - every child is special)

• Personality - Look at her attire .. impressive and perfect according to the function although she is the cunning person in the event and everyone is aware about it but, people wont miss a chance to boast her....(what matter the most is what's inside rather than outside... be aware of pretenders)

• Earning grudges - Look at him/her, he/she is earning more than you or has a better lifestyle...like seriously!! (Although not much money , but yaa peaceful sleep and satisfaction at the end of the day matters...Do I need to remind that - No one can achieve anything More Than Luck and Ahead of Time...)

• Missed the winning - A match lost by 1 run or a century missed by 1 run... so close na... What a shame, this is the fourth time he/she misses the century and team lost the match, dont know why he/she is always selected in the team as they always misses the chance and team has to face the defeat... (Those who speak even dont know the pressure on the field and the pain behind losing the closest victory even the fifth time..)

Ohh c'mon .. give me a break ....

In Satyug and Dwaparyug also the competition exists and people were surviving and living happily, then why can't we?

Relax and take a deep breath... You are no better than anyone else and, no one is better than you...

I reckon the saying - "Comparison is the thief of joy" - Theodore Roosevelt

Everyone has their own usp, each one of us is special, we just need to give the best shot in whatever we do and never let anyone anyone deter you... Read and imbibe this Bhagwad Geeta Chanting...

Believe in yourself and ignore those who (secretly) are always envy of you, your skills, your ability and thats why they compare, thats why they try to dissuade you .. coz they dont know how to make a move and they are afraid of yours, they dont know their usp and thats why they are scared of yours, they dont know how to draw their own line and thats why they are removing yours....

So what is your something? What are you good at? Coz I know you are the best in your skill and it makes you special... Find it and shut those mouth with your action and achievement coz life always gives a fair chance to everyone...

I recall another lyrics here which is somewhere its in the middle of the song...,'koi galat ya kahe sahi, hume kisiki parwah nahi, jaye jahan bhi leke zindagi, we got to go that way (2) Ale..."

Lets go to the way of being the way we are.. "BEING JUST YOU"

You may believe it or not, but I know., I am the best 😉😉😉 and mein apni favorite hoon..😍😍😍 and a lil bit special of my readers too ... hahahaha...

Catch yaa soon with my next blog... Awaiting your comments and feedback here...