I was tuning
my guitar to play some new random tunes & suddenly the doorbell rings…
guess whoz there on the door; it was her (the crazy bee) my bestie.. she rushed
inside and plop down on sofa and I was like hey watch out its my sofa yar plz
have some mercy on it ;😂 … then her reaction tell something different.. oops
someone seems like an angry bird…
Initially I
was a bit scared coz of her groaning face so I started talking to her
gradually… look @ your face babes, it seems like someone has splashed a water
on you while you are walking down the street with the new clothes and you swear
on that idiot… oh no, I guess I made her anxious now so I directly come to the
point…
C’mon tell
me now ... I cant bear any more suspense and then she bursted and worn her heart
on my sleeves… “Do you know how you feel when someone is hampering your fun and
constantly nagging into your life?” No matter whatever you do or
wherever you go, the third eye and third ear follows you always…why cant people
mind their own business and let others live happily? Why every time you need to
answer their unnecessary and irrelevant questions?? Is it compulsory for them
to poke their noses in each minute matter too… as if they gonna ask you our
breathe count also… I mean seriously… I feel like running somewhere or ask them
to get out….
After calmly
listening to her, I interrupted her, “relax and chill..” to cool down her tempo
I told her lets have some cold coffee and snacks, music .. a sort of complete
hangout, fun and dhamaal…
So until I
made a cold coffee and grab some plate for snacks, she was shuffling through
magazines and tv channels in disgrace… as soon as I approached her I warned her
not to speak and listen to me.. and then I began…
You know
what just stop being nice and saying ‘yes’ to everything that comes to you … be
kind always but no need to be nice and. Be honest, direct, sometimes rude and
disliked, say No for yourself …. its completely ok.
I recently
read this from a very good novel and learnt that “Stop buying the culture that
hampers your individuality coz how we think, what we value – those you must
choose yourself. You cant let anyone or any society determine those for you.”
After all
its 1 life and 1 chance & I truly believe on Gaur Gopal Das theory , “
Making a few adjustment here and there, if we can improve relationships adjust.
But if you are the only one who has to adjust always consider stopping it.”
With this
conversion, real song hits the phone, “Apne jahaan ke hum badshah hai, masti bhara
yeh apna jahaan hai…” 😎😈 dog always keeps barking pal & there will be
plenty of them around…
Whats
next!!! Well , she cheered up, understood the essence of her own existence and
ignore we laughed, we listened and rock
on my another favourite song, “zindagi 1 safar hai suhana, yahaan kal kya
ho kisne jaana.., maut aani hai ayegi 1 din , jaan jani hai jayegi 1 din , aisi
baton se kya ghabrana, yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana..” 💓💓 Tata and see you in my next blog... and ya definitely awaiting your precious comments and thoughts too... 🙋
