I was sitting with my laptop responding to emails from the same balcony of my home where I used to read books, prepare notes, study for exams, chill out with a cup of coffee and soothing breeze that always rejuvenate the mood…...Wondering, am I grown up!!!?
Well, yea... time flies
like snapping a finger and we recall the moments that are connected to a place,
pal or a phase of life…isn’t it?
What if we could replace the unused desk of life with these cherishing moments and the chance to live that phase again…!! Sound like fantasy yaa….hahahaha.. come back to reality guys…kyunki… “aane wala pal, jaane wala hai, ho sake to isme zindagi bitado, pal jo yeh jana vala hai…”
When you start growing up, why to care about other’s opinion yaaro …! Life is too short to regret if you don't listen to your heart and if don't act upon your desires coz kuch to log kahenge, logo ka kaam hai kehna... And when the time slips by,even replacement happens without any call.. Wanna check few instances!? Follow me:
- Laptops replaced Books
- Outdoor games replaced Mobile Games
- Vehicle’s nuisance replaced kid’s chatter in the compound
- Virtual meetings replaced Hangouts
In the same manner,
other’s opinion takes over your own self choice... as an:
Ø
Attending
a social family function – Attire that
matters
·
How it
looks?
·
Is it
ok to wear this in this respective function?
·
Is it
too short?
· If I wear this, what others will say?
Ø
While
going to shop – Better product that
matters
·
Which
one of these products suits more?
· How’s that!? Shall I try it out? While seeking else’s opinion, if your mate says its like ok or not so good, although that looks perfect and so comfy for you, you gonna definitely change your mind, and wont be picking it…
Ø
While
preparing or going out for a food – Taste
& quality that matters
·
How's
the food?
·
Is the
taste ok?
·
Do you
like it?
· Do they maintain proper hygiene and cleanliness? (especially while going to a restaurant)
Ø
While
going on a trip or adventure – Place and
even food that matters
·
How's
that place?
·
How
will be the food?
·
Will there
be cleanliness in the surroundings?
C'mon pal its your comfort, your style, your adventure, your choice.. if you seek else's opinion, they definitely gonna change it. Well, it doesn't mean that you should leave the decency and etiquettes in your selection and comfy zone, but don't ruin your own self .. Its okay to be "Just Be You" 😊😇
You gonna find such individual at every step of your life and sometimes they screw you up and put you in Decision Fatigue... Why to replace your own choice coz of world’s judgements and their worthless opinions? People are gonna criticize anyway; nobody knows about your circumstances and even don’t care about your comfort and choice..
"We are born here with nothing and die with
nothing in b/w whatever is happening is beneficial (in some or the other way), no matter which way you live,
everybody shall pass and its upon you whether to allow anyone to interfere."
Instead of How's That...., build an Who Cares! approach.... I bet you you will live a superior life...
Ultimately, your pleasure matters ...as I always say, life is just once...make full of it before it ends without knocking the door to Heaven...
