MEMORIES

Ummmm….. How do I change my awful mood where I just want to stay alone with no “equipments” around me??  Closing the eyes and going into flashback; I got a broad smile on my face. J ® J

Wait, wait, wait, I reminded about my bizarre moments (may be exiting, gloomy, delighting, and terrific and so on…). Yes, all these are stockpiled memories.

Right from our childhood we imbibe rather I would say we congregate all those shy moments (of childhood either willingly or unwillingly) that grabs our mind until we live. Then as and when we grew up, at certain occurrence we always wish that that time should not lapse and remain still; but then it become our precedent and we left with memories….

“Memories” is something that insists each one of us to capture and evoke all those moments in the form of photographs, videos, tags, etc that rejuvenate our overburden mind. The instinct that really works is none other than our memories at anyplace, anywhere we wish to carry as it always tugs the specific episode.

“We live in a world of information overload and attention deficiency” and here I think all we need is to rewind our memories and let your whole day be passed with some new jiffy to store and add in the box of our memories for the lifetime.

Wishing you all “Happy New Year 2014” with lots of memorable days of past years and remember there is no courtesy desk for us to go and get a refund on an UNUSED PHASE of life….  Someday somehow stick to your memories… J J

WOMAN ENLIGHTENMENT: Takes A Stand

I remember meeting a girl almost a year back, perusing her graduation in Commerce, when she told me that she wasn't that academically sound nor her family had the fortune to make her study in a reputed college guaranteeing job placements after the completion of her degree course.

After meeting her, my mind was flocked with numerous questions …. Does she regret being born in a family that is not quite able to financially support her?  What would she do after her college? Will she join a job or her parents will get her married? Where would she stand 10 years down the line? Does she even dream? Doesn't she tired bowing down every time to her parents wish or the circumstances created for such classes of people in the society?

I found her as human as any other person I’d normally meet. So its high time for us to ask where the problem exactly lies??

Government since 6 decades has been increasingly emphasizing in its plan and policies, the issue of woman empowerment through a cliched tool named “education”.

Of course over here the intent is not to go against the lack of good education system. But the issue over here is that its high time we extend our vision to track down the real causes behind the “women inequality” in our society. The main root cause is the attitude of the society. The situations today are not less, give and take a few changes.

Lets get the real image; the actual image of real India, where educated women in many house holds are denied permission to go for a job. When such day can be seen that our society allow women to shoulder man in each and every profession equally?

In the West, women make their own career choices; go along head to head with their male counterparts and even more successful. Even today women have to face a lot of resistance from the society. It will definitely take some more time before the new age ideas get wholly accepted. But for the time being, the focus should be on women empowerment not just through education but encouraging a positive attitude shift in society towards women and fostering traits of confidence and intuitiveness in females.

This can be done through orientation and grooming programs, which could be held at campuses of such colleges.
With the contribution of all of us (forming a part of society) shall give positive stimuli to women’s capabilities by aiding them morally, financially & of course to take a stand with grace & a spark creates wonders….!!!

This is a contribution of my best buddy Drashti Parekh and I appreciate her efforts…

THANK YOU ALMIGHTY

We all are so hectic in our life that we might forget that our endurance is because of almighty…..    No doubt we are imploring commonly but we must thankful at least for our safe existence up till now…..  Lets us together don’t forget to be grateful to Almighty for some common things defining here.

Thank you Almighty……

Ø To experience the value of my breadth

Ø To be one of the luckiest one for giving me parents

Ø For giving me all senses to experience the soothe

Ø Giving me bread and butter to survive and strive

Ø For creating a beautiful nature around me

Ø For being the part of the society with my dearest kitch-n-kins

Ø To share ecstasy and grief with the closed ones

Ø To feel the pain of other creatures ( by keeping the leg in other’s shoe)

Ø For making me learn the virtues of life

Ø Making me aware about the wisdom

Ø Giving me the chance to experience my excellence

Ø To be always with me , providing cue to worst situation and get me rid out of that

Ø Forgiving me for my mistakes and accepting with open hands by making me realize about my blunder

Ø To feel the significance of a rare chance of “Life” as a social human being

Ø Providing me the warmth of life

Thank you Almighty to send me on this earth.

We all are experiencing the tide and ebb or ups and downs in our life. It may happen sometimes that we feel only we are the victims of the unfavorable situation and start indicting God for the same; but nothing is permanent and instead of the pessimist approach we need to cope up with the circumstances and living the delightful life being obliged to Almighty…. Have this a custom a feel the crisp of life. 

SMILE

Just a gesture of one can make an environment casual. A “smile” is a peerless stimuli lying within each of us.

What a wonder that Almighty have gifted us to spread the smile on everyone’s face & make them feel delight……!!! Starting a day with a beautiful smile on face & spreading it will certainly make our day cheerful; despite of any bottlenecks which may overcome through smile (or rather gives spirit to handle the situation).

We all have experienced that whenever we are blissful is articulated through smile (a symbol of glee) which gives cue to our kitch-n-kins and it is transmitted to all our surroundings as well.

“Use and enjoy every moment of life, don’t save it because there is no courtesy desk for us to go & get a refund on an unused life.” What a thought…..!!

Today’s generation of chatting and texting followed by different assortment of smiley indicates the mood swing and tang of the subject of conversations. Isn’t this non verbal beckon amazing..??

Sometimes we feel crazy (or rather we think we are mockery for others) if it overdoes the things; but friends it’s good to be crazy if just a smile can create wonder in some or (many) people’s lives...& we will surely say ha ha main crazy hu…..

So friend’s let us initiate our day with a sweet smile on face & make others feel good…. Have a smiley day forever…..

“Agar ek haara hua insaan harne k baad bhi smile kare,

 To jeetne wala apni jeet ki khushi kho deta hai,

 That’s the power of smile…

 So keep smiling...” J J J

Keep your face elite with smile, do it & feel it.

 

DREAMS

“Sapne  har kisi ke hote hain,

Kuch sajte hain, kuch savarte hain,

Lekin sapne pure to vahi hote hain,  jinme jazba hota hain,

Aur chaah hoti hain sapno se pare jane ki……..”

Hey, have you ever dreamt??!!!........ Of course you have and you will …….. Has anyone thought about living a dream? Yes, just dream about living a dream in real with its rationale (raison d'être).

“Dreams”, short and sweet word that is part of our precious life… What actually dream is all about that vary from each one of us?

 It can take any array as:

Ø Passion

Ø Audacity

Ø Perseverance

Ø Com-mensuration

Ø Endurance

Ø Incessant

Ø and finally Achievement

Dream, an ongoing process that makes a person strives hard to run behind it. It provides vision for a life and acts as a “spark” from within arousing our capabilities. Actually, we visualize the thing that we wish to possess via fantasy. Our mind consciously or subconsciously is activated by our dreams for our life and goals to get that fulfilled by moving in a specific direction.

Sometimes our dream gets wrecked and it pinches our heart radically; this effect leaves a person in despair & chronic worry. Instead one must give a second chance for better outcome with new conception…..who knows that the Almighty had opened new window for better outcome, and the deserving place for us….

Never get screwed up…. Just gear up to ambition!!