Being a NEWBORN K-I-D-D-O - not a Kidding thing!!

 Hello Amazing World!!! As I am a novice to this planet, I dont know how to introduce myself very well as I am a brand new kid - an infant...😄😊  I am stunned being the part of this world as my baby nose smells my mom (the first person ever I know) , feels the touch & connect with different people and surroundings, my baby eyes are stunned viewing everything new in the form of color, people, things and a lot more...I am a persistent babbler 😁😅  I feel extremely excited but, there a lot of issues that I encounter being an infant.... Wanna know in my mom's voice? Then follow her here... I am sure you gonna love hearing me out...

Its a saying "Children are the form of God" 

Once you are into this globe, your Karma begins right away...

• A newborn is undoubtedly cute and attractive and they fascinate not only every individual but also the surroundings; but hey wait, a kiddo is not so jolly everytime coz we (the humans) plays with a kiddo like a toy - constant tickling, sometimes carrying or letting me just lay down despite they didnt want to.
• People enjoys the moment they spare with me coz they can play with me the way they wish!😯😮
• Elders think that they got someone to play with & spend the leisure time

Being such a lil cutiee pie I just need to convey my feelings nonverbally, yet I encounter heaps of hurdles like,

• I hate the BUTTINSKI or KIBITZER around me , has anyone asked them for their unwelcomed advice.. why people dont mind their own business!!?
• The humans call me "Whiny" when i cry out loud coz of ache, hunger , boredom or any random reason; they even dont allow me to laugh too much or being so playful coz they think 'I may catch the evil eye'(kisi ki nazar lag jayegi re....)
• When the parents are alive, how cum other humans got right to take any damn decision related to me!!😡😡 
• Just leave me alone sometimes people...!! I dont need your uninvited hugs n kisses, rather, I need some space & fresh air to breathe in...
• I wanna play, fall, laugh, cry, learn & grow on my own .... get me out of your unnecessary supervision coz i wanna be a rough n tough person...

Certainly its hard to be parents, but believe me its harder being a kiddo who always tries to convey the emotions he/she struggles with...

Let me grow up once and then all these homosapiens (except my parents) will reduce their attraction towards me and undoubtedly they will be more attentive towards my moves for any actions I do...People never cease to amaze me!

                                                         

O Lord! In your beautiful world here, I feel people in disguise.. But now being a part of this planet I ought to execute my Karma... 😊😊

Embrace The Unpredictability!!! Lift Your Spirits....

 Trin... Trin... Trin.. the alarm keeps on buzzing @ 5.30 a.m. when I was making the coffee to kickstart my day... (sometimes I wake up before the alarm reminds me... 😜) 

With the cold sip of coffee( to stimulate my body in the chilly winter morning), I buckled up my shoes & started running on the streets... The freezing wind and the sweating physique made my morning blissful; random exchange of smiles, anonyms waving friends, healthy surroundings naturally lifts the spirit... 😊😇 

On my way back to home, I went to the cafe with my diary to list down the spontaneous thoughts or say kuch kahi ankhai baatein... 

Randomly I just smiled at the guy on my opposite table & to my response he smirked @ me... 😏 But I had a strong intuition about him as if he is struggling badly from inside... although its none of my business to poke into someone's life, yet I decided to just hear him out so that he may wear his heart to my sleeves and may feel better....

I grabbed the chair to sit in front of him and he was furious as if he gonna smash me right on my face as I sat without his permission.. so before he utter a word, I started the casual conversation to distract his aggression... And as you know I am very good with people (not boasting yaa 😉)😃😄 I anyhow convinced Karan (his name) to open up his mountains of pains and obviously he did... 😊

So here goes our conversation:

Karan: I am having a contradictory life coz whatever actions (each and every act) I do, it bounces back with the adverse results...  Yaar I dont want the way the life is treating me everytime.. why only me...?! Things are like completely unpredictable...say for instance...

Ø  I am scared of taking any decision no matter how small or big it is as I am unaware of its effect or say I don’t wish that my decision should turn the table on my misfortune and again laughs @ me

Ø  I don’t understand why I feel lonely even my people are around me.. feels like detachment coz I cant spare much time with them knowingly or unknowingly...

Ø  Sometimes the working environment also sucks as it disturbs the work life balance…

            Nothing good happens in my life... 

Me: Look dude, first of all you are not the only one in this world struggling with problems.. each living being is fighting even for the basic needs.. & people like us are truly blessed... 

• Dont think about the cause and effect relationship of every situation that you encounter...
• Stop making assumptions in life...& embrace the unpredictability buddy... you will definitely see atleast some good things coming out for you. Lets talk about some recent real life instances...

• We all got closed to our family during covid in one or the other way - sharing innumerable things with family that perhaps we would never do or being playful @ home with all the members or say learning new things, may be like being the helping hand in the kitchen or becoming the self dependent for own chores, experimenting new things - something out of the blue, etc, etc...
• Hybrid or work from home culture made our lives easier and even balanced (at least a bit) - a positive occurrence due to covid 19

Remember while studying in school or college we never use to plan or predict the things.. we always make things happen spontaneous like:

• bunking the class, 
• playing pranks on fellow mates and teachers, 
• unpredicted trips or small vacations with pals, 
• roaming on bikes @ late night, 
• having ice-creams in the chilled winter @ 3 a.m. & obviously fallen sick the very next day and many more things that we cant count yaa..

Yes , we actually make all those things happened and enjoyed that moment, so why not now??  Life is in the moment only buddy & for each one of us it will be different, yet we have to embrace it and keep the spirits up to Feel Alive & Live Awesome; kyunki , "zindagi 1 safar hai suhana, yahan kal kya ho kisne jana..,haste gaate jahan se guxar, duniya ki tu parvah na kar, muskurate hue din bitana, yaha kal kya ho kisne jana"

Have Fun - Your Life , Your Way

 

I was tuning my guitar to play some new random tunes & suddenly the doorbell rings… guess whoz there on the door; it was her (the crazy bee) my bestie.. she rushed inside and plop down on sofa and I was like hey watch out its my sofa yar plz have some mercy on it ;😂 … then her reaction tell something different.. oops someone seems like an angry bird…

Initially I was a bit scared coz of her groaning face so I started talking to her gradually… look @ your face babes, it seems like someone has splashed a water on you while you are walking down the street with the new clothes and you swear on that idiot… oh no, I guess I made her anxious now so I directly come to the point…

C’mon tell me now ... I cant bear any more suspense and then she bursted and worn her heart on my sleeves… “Do you know how you feel when someone is hampering your fun and constantly nagging into your life?” No matter whatever you do or wherever you go, the third eye and third ear follows you always…why cant people mind their own business and let others live happily? Why every time you need to answer their unnecessary and irrelevant questions?? Is it compulsory for them to poke their noses in each minute matter too… as if they gonna ask you our breathe count also… I mean seriously… I feel like running somewhere or ask them to get out….

After calmly listening to her, I interrupted her, “relax and chill..” to cool down her tempo I told her lets have some cold coffee and snacks, music .. a sort of complete hangout, fun and dhamaal…

So until I made a cold coffee and grab some plate for snacks, she was shuffling through magazines and tv channels in disgrace… as soon as I approached her I warned her not to speak and listen to me.. and then I began…

You know what just stop being nice and saying ‘yes’ to everything that comes to you … be kind always but no need to be nice and. Be honest, direct, sometimes rude and disliked, say No for yourself …. its completely ok.

I recently read this from a very good novel and learnt that “Stop buying the culture that hampers your individuality coz how we think, what we value – those you must choose yourself. You cant let anyone or any society determine those for you.”

After all its 1 life and 1 chance & I truly believe on Gaur Gopal Das theory , “ Making a few adjustment here and there, if we can improve relationships adjust. But if you are the only one who has to adjust always consider stopping it.”

With this conversion, real song hits the phone, “Apne jahaan ke hum badshah hai, masti bhara yeh apna jahaan hai…” 😎😈 dog always keeps barking pal & there will be plenty of them around…

Whats next!!! Well , she cheered up, understood the essence of her own existence and ignore  we laughed, we listened and rock on my another favourite song, “zindagi 1 safar hai suhana, yahaan kal kya ho kisne jaana.., maut aani hai ayegi 1 din , jaan jani hai jayegi 1 din , aisi baton se kya ghabrana, yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana..” 💓💓 Tata and see you in my next blog... and ya definitely awaiting your precious comments and thoughts too... 🙋

 

 

Yesss.....!! You r the BEST & You r also SPECIAL...!!! 😊😊😊

I had a cup of coffee in my one hand with headphones in ears and tapping the feet on the lyrics of the music saying - "koi hero yahan, koi zero yahan, koi estar hai, koi bekar hai, main kaun hun , tumse mein kya kahun, hai sach to ye dostoooo - I AM THE BEST...(3)" mast song na...here, a thought strikes my mind and it goes like....

Morning Buzzz....

Alarm buzzes but, I am sure its immediately snoozed or switched off.... loll

You are sprawling on the bed and your mom is yelling, 'still sleeping like kumbhkaran even when the sun is on your head... snatching your blanket and opening the curtains...😁😁 You are forcefully waking up, stretching your arms and still yawning... suddenly you are all awake with mom's smack😜😜'

Then while watching the clock, you hop out of bed, shouting on mom saying why she didnt woke you up a bit early (although she is screaming from last half an hour)... You gathered all your energy to get ready for your college, match, office or any task that you are getting late for.... with a bag in one hand and a mouth filled with half sandwich (or any other breakfast or a sip of milk, tea, coffee or juice) and by now you are out of the home...

Now you have reached @ your destination....

You receive your grades or score or appraisal and everybody start comparing it with one another...few faces light up while others become dull and start panicking with a flood of thoughts like where is the loophole, why I cant learn flattering, why the destiny is always against me, why I always stay behind and on and on and on..... isn't it?? 

Despite being grateful of whatever is received, the comparison acts as negative reinforcement but, who initiates it!? Its You , Me and Each one of us....

Not only @ workplace but, even in surroundings or in social life, people always sees the best in others and its easy to exemplify:

• Gossiping @ marriage function - My son / daughter is an engineer / doctor (emphasizing more on science stream and considering the people from commerce or arts stream are worthless or less skilled)

• Whispering @ office - He / She achieved more than what they deserved coz boss favors nepotism (but why cant you see the dedication and efforts behind his/her success)

• Siblings comparison - One of them is always outstanding in all the tasks while, the other is an average (the other one has their own ability like painting, dancing, speaking, writing - this reminds me of tare zameen par that make us understand - every child is special)

• Personality - Look at her attire .. impressive and perfect according to the function although she is the cunning person in the event and everyone is aware about it but, people wont miss a chance to boast her....(what matter the most is what's inside rather than outside... be aware of pretenders)

• Earning grudges - Look at him/her, he/she is earning more than you or has a better lifestyle...like seriously!! (Although not much money , but yaa peaceful sleep and satisfaction at the end of the day matters...Do I need to remind that - No one can achieve anything More Than Luck and Ahead of Time...)

• Missed the winning - A match lost by 1 run or a century missed by 1 run... so close na... What a shame, this is the fourth time he/she misses the century and team lost the match, dont know why he/she is always selected in the team as they always misses the chance and team has to face the defeat... (Those who speak even dont know the pressure on the field and the pain behind losing the closest victory even the fifth time..)

Ohh c'mon .. give me a break ....

In Satyug and Dwaparyug also the competition exists and people were surviving and living happily, then why can't we?

Relax and take a deep breath... You are no better than anyone else and, no one is better than you...

I reckon the saying - "Comparison is the thief of joy" - Theodore Roosevelt

Everyone has their own usp, each one of us is special, we just need to give the best shot in whatever we do and never let anyone anyone deter you... Read and imbibe this Bhagwad Geeta Chanting...

Believe in yourself and ignore those who (secretly) are always envy of you, your skills, your ability and thats why they compare, thats why they try to dissuade you .. coz they dont know how to make a move and they are afraid of yours, they dont know their usp and thats why they are scared of yours, they dont know how to draw their own line and thats why they are removing yours....

So what is your something? What are you good at? Coz I know you are the best in your skill and it makes you special... Find it and shut those mouth with your action and achievement coz life always gives a fair chance to everyone...

I recall another lyrics here which is somewhere its in the middle of the song...,'koi galat ya kahe sahi, hume kisiki parwah nahi, jaye jahan bhi leke zindagi, we got to go that way (2) Ale..."

Lets go to the way of being the way we are.. "BEING JUST YOU"

You may believe it or not, but I know., I am the best 😉😉😉 and mein apni favorite hoon..😍😍😍 and a lil bit special of my readers too ... hahahaha...

Catch yaa soon with my next blog... Awaiting your comments and feedback here...

KARMA - What Goes Around, Always Comes Around….

Hey Folks! What’s Up..? I know your answer okay…. So don’t make such neutral faces 😐😑😐… C'mon, everyone is under the same roof of the pandemic.. but this time shall pass though.. so don’t worry and stay happieee and healthy….. ( not in a bulky sense yaa) 😉😉

Well, I can share with you some sensible (you decide if its really making a sense.. lollzzz 😜 ) ideas  when you are inside your home and cannot step out..i had been to the “Holographic Voyage”  to all the 7 continents of the world… and honestly it was completely worth exploring… but then, I decided to switch over to something more interesting rather than being the binge watcher on TV, laptop or cell phone…

Luckily, I came across the spellbinding book on KARMA which has articulated the quotes of life in accordance to the actions and demonstrated the life lessons.

Sometimes or many a times we encounter some adverse situation or going through hard times wherein you are trapped by our own surroundings (kith n kins) or they wanna make you feel bad publicly…!! But guys, don’t worry and take a chill pill.. Karma is always by your side ( A Revenger 😈) with its own set of protocols that can make your life easy pessy… - whatever goes around, it definitely back fires and comes around… You may believe it or not, Karma is always active….

Let me illustrate here few quotations:

• Be careful how you treat people – What you do to others has a funny way of coming back on you (uski laathi mein awaaz nahi hoti)

• Sooner or later everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences…

• You will never understand the damage you did to someone until the same thing happens to you and karma definitely help me to watch you burn 😂

• There is a natural law of karma that vindictive people , who go out of their way to hurt others, will end up broke and alone

Even I came up with few more interesting quotes that will blow your mind:

• Never argue with fools. Onlookers are not capable enough to tell the difference.

• Karma is justice. It does not reward or punish. It shows to nepotism because we have to earn all that we receive.

• Every action has equal and opposite reaction – Universal law. It spares none… Wrong deed and injustice inflicted is paid back in the same coin. No one has escaped justice of universe, its only a matter of time

• When karma comes back to punch you in face, I wanna be there just in case you need help.

• Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some comes to clear your path

So pals, how are you feeling now? Take a deep breath and relax…

Just sit back and watch the lunatic bearing their own fruits of seed they sowed… but make sure you sow the seeds of good deeds (despite the receiving the injustice – if you wanna free yourself from the circle of karma) else karma wont spare you even…hahahaha….. but you know what I also believe in Tit for Tat, the only difference is that I let the Karma do on my behalf….

Don't think much mate...😊 Just perform your duties and be kind towards the living being and that's it.. You are done... 😊😊 btw, awaiting for your thoughts and ideas on the Karma in the comments box..

🙋Catch you soon with my next blog.... 

 

How’s That......!!!

I was sitting with my laptop responding to emails from the same balcony of my home where I used to read books, prepare notes, study for exams, chill out with a cup of coffee and soothing breeze that always rejuvenate the mood…...Wondering, am I grown up!!!?

Well, yea... time flies like snapping a finger and we recall the moments that are connected to a place, pal or a phase of life…isn’t it?

What if we could replace the unused desk of life with these cherishing moments and the chance  to live that phase again…!! Sound like fantasy yaa….hahahaha.. come back to reality guys…kyunki… “aane wala pal, jaane wala hai, ho sake to isme zindagi bitado, pal jo yeh jana vala hai…”

When you start growing up, why to care about other’s opinion yaaro …! Life is too short to regret if  you don't listen to your heart and if don't act upon your desires coz kuch to log kahenge, logo ka kaam hai kehna... And when the time slips by,even  replacement happens without any call.. Wanna check few instances!? Follow me:

• Laptops replaced Books
• Outdoor games replaced Mobile Games
• Vehicle’s nuisance replaced kid’s chatter in the compound
• Virtual meetings replaced Hangouts

In the same manner, other’s opinion takes over your own self choice... as an:

Ø  Attending a social family function – Attire that matters

·         How it looks?

·         Is it ok to wear this in this respective function?

·         Is it too short?

·         If I wear this, what others will say? 

Ø  While going to shop – Better product that matters

·         Which one of these products suits more?

·         How’s that!? Shall I try it out? While seeking else’s opinion, if your mate says its like ok or not so good, although that looks perfect and so comfy for you, you gonna definitely change your mind, and wont be picking it… 

Ø  While preparing or going out for a food – Taste & quality that matters

·         How's the food?

·         Is the taste ok?

·         Do you like it?

·         Do they maintain proper hygiene and cleanliness? (especially while going to a restaurant) 

Ø  While going on a trip or adventure – Place and even food that matters

·         How's that place?

·         How will be the food?

·         Will there be cleanliness in the surroundings?

C'mon pal its your comfort, your style, your adventure, your choice.. if you seek else's opinion, they definitely gonna change it. Well, it doesn't mean that you should leave the decency and etiquettes in your selection and comfy zone, but don't ruin your own self .. Its okay to be "Just Be You" 😊😇

                                

You gonna find such individual at every step of your life and sometimes they screw you up and put you in Decision Fatigue... Why to replace your own choice coz of world’s judgements and their worthless opinions? People are gonna criticize anyway; nobody knows about your circumstances and even don’t care about your comfort and choice..

"We are born here with nothing and die with nothing in b/w whatever is happening is beneficial (in some or the other way), no matter which way you live, everybody shall pass and its upon you whether to allow anyone to interfere."

Instead of How's That...., build an Who Cares! approach.... I bet you you will live a superior life...

                                    

Ultimately, your pleasure matters ...as I always say, life is just once...make full of it before it ends without knocking the door to Heaven...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

KicKStarT YouR RoutinE

            

Hey Pals! How are you doing? Well, I hope you are off to bed from your sprawling posture, changing sides, and lazy moves…. Still Yawning…!! Aah!! Don’t worry about it, we all follow this same routine ;) hey, here I got something… R-O-U-T-I-N-E… the R-E-P-E-A-T-A-T-I-O-N…

How frequently you feel bored and tiresome performing the same task every day? Like..

•   Doing the same office work under same profile or say facing the same boss!! (rofl)
• Commuting to the same road to travel to office - home and home - office..
• Dealing with the clients, negotiating, selling, promoting, and such stuff goes on and on and on…

Quiet often, right? Well, these are just few instances where we all feel tired and frustrated someday or the other, yet, we keep on performing the duties... and thats the life yarr.. 

We sleep with noise and wake up with noise; as if we are in a Race to:

•           To Earn bread and butter
•      To Perform different roles
•      To Prove the best
•      To Reach the destination – First Come First Serve
•      To Lost yourself in the hustle and bustle under various responsibilities of life

C'mon, don’t worry mate, Chill....no need to cling to this monotonous practice....Refill your routine to make most of your days cheerful and happy. Just answer these questions and start implementing it…

•         Have you ever (tried) waking up before the sun rises!? A lil bit harder initially, but trust me man, it            really works….

•     Have you ever felt the cool breeze and serene atmosphere in the dawn!? Or Have you ever been            to your window or balcony and stand still to feel the chirping of birds? 

•     Just rise from your bed with half opened eyes and sneak through the window, I bet you won’t need        splash of water to completely wake up

•     Have you ever heard the first bell of temple that clings your mind to kickstart your day?

•     When have you been with yourself and listened to the sound of your soul?

I know, I know, it may not be as easy as it sounds, but yes, if you are determined to change your lifestyle(then only) no one has the guts to stop you... 

Lets add some more tricks to add crisp, excitement, adventure and fun to your daily dose… come come, follow me….

·         Be with your soul and enjoy the gush of breeze

·         Free your soul and meditate

·         Fuel the energy to your body – tighten your shoelace to jog/run in the early morning  

·    Go for Cycling 

·         Listen to the soothing music or audio books that calms your mind

·         Have a pillow fight with your soulmate and kids and laugh out loud (till your stomach aches)

·         Call a friend and burst your emotions

·         Enjoy the peace in mother’s lap

·         Have fun and fight with your siblings

·         Take a ride with your father at TeaPost (or @ any place) and share your secrets ...;)

·         Share your smile - Here one song clicks my mind, " Kisi ki muskurahaton pe ho nisar, kisika dard mil sake to le udhaar, jina isika naam hai...

Guys, our life is so busy that we forget enjoying the simplest and the smallest happiness that revolves around us... so why not to provoke pleasure in our daily lives and eradicate the boring routine!? Stimulate your Each Day with joy, its totally in your hand...  

one more song here,"Zindagi 1 safar hai suhana, yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana...

Cheers to this daily tonic… I love my OPTIMISED R-O-U-T-I-N-E , do you?

Share your answer in the comment box. I am waiting to listen your each New Day ....!!

 

How much Have you Explored the Lockdown 2020?

Aah! This year 2020 we neither gonna recall the IPL 2020, nor any roaming destinations or hangout corners…. hey! don’t be disheartened…. When these range of pursuits that include your favorite sports, cinemas, journeys and outdoors are paused, we have bunch of untouched and unlocked opportunities to explore…. Open those Shutters and follow me…

Come Come…

• Flashback – Recall your school and college days: Purani Jeans aur Guitar, Mohelle ke vo chhat aur mere yaar…, call your group and have a video chat and ya don’t forget their leg pulling and revealing secrets in front of their spouse… hahahahaha (Virtual Connection)

• Open up – That dusty Drawing book (untouched musical instrument or anything you missed) hidden somewhere in the corner of the cupboard that refreshes you when you sketch something randomly from your heart and brings big curve on your face.

• Look at – The mirror and dance like you did when you were in your teenage and pat your own back , boasting your performance... lollzz..Hey, I heard applaud from your door side… aah, they (your kins) got you dancing…. Now more pets on your back as your family found the unseen dancer…

• Sing aloud – In the bathroom, as usually you did and now u forget under the hustle and bustle of busy and serious life… be that much loud that it hits the ears of your surroundings…. Hahahahaha.. well, then be ready for the consequences, may be you get locked from the outside….. ;)

• Play indoors - With kids, chal fir se bacche ban jaye.. and make them learn the tactics of the games that resembles the real life...

• Try your hands - At cooking , even though you are worst at it.. I am sure, atleast you will get an appreciation for your innocent attempt....loll

Hey are you enjoying…? Then lets explore some more inhouse adventures….

Bacchhe man ke sacche…. Hey, m scared, don’t give me such looks! I know I know they are the most notorious creature on this planet (once upon a time your mom was saying so and now, you have passed your legacy…), and this you gotto realize in this work from home phase.. lollzz

So how do you manage your toddlers and tweens? Or its not wrong to say the vice versa situation… ;)

• Have you ever been to the Virtual Tour with your family?

When we all are locked in this lockdown in our house, you can roam the world on your fingertips and even that is free of cost… That serene atmosphere, chirping of birds, big hills and snowy mountains, riding the bike or a gypsy in between the small and risky hilly roads, monuments and historic sculptures and much more that can make your adrenaline rush…and infinite places to explore that you may not visit physically each and every one of it…

• Unfold the page of that book you wished to read since long and grab your pleasure…

• Have you ever worn your heart on your sleeves that emptied the bags of feelings and emotions suppressed in some corner of the heart since ages? Or, things that pinched or hurt you, or feel depressed? If not yet, then its too late to wait…

Go and hug your mom or dear ones and cry out loud.. Let the floods of suppressed feelings come out and feel relaxed and peaceful.. Life is too short to hold grudges and regret..

I framed a quote here,

“Life as Homosapiens is a rare chance and if you fail to rejuvenate it, you miss the most adorable gift of Almighty that others still crave for…’’ So embrace the moments it comes your way and make the most precious of it where you cannot even miss a beat of living till the last breath..

I don’t know how much this lockdown matters to you, but yes it matters to your kins the most and you must let them know how much they mean to you!! 

Enough of the social networking yaro...Covid19 brings back the gala time and delighting moments with family and kids and helps building back the real connectivity of relationships, missed moments to live, tell, play and spend on the unused desk of life...

Chal Fari Jivi Laiye…. Keep reading and drop your comments, your words matters to me…

Aa aa  aa.. I am here only, scribbling my next blog.. till then be healthy ,stay safe and happy… Catch you soon…

24 Hours Are Not Enough Yaar..!! Ye Dil Mange More……!!!

Aa Aa Aa… Don’t misinterpret me; I am not talking about that song ,’24/7 I think of you,…….’ Well, this tale is different that revolves around your desires and crude wishlist of life.. Let me take you to this new ride which is open 24*7..;) ;) And it begins like this…

On one side my friend was yelling my name from the street – Jhanviii.. we are getting late, are you coming or else brrumm brummm brummm ( acceleration of her vehicle). And on the other side, my mom is calling – don’t forget to pick up the dress from the tailor and yes the other monster (oops the only monster) my bro screaming – oyee don’t forget to bring my handsfree from that store… lastly, a final call from the hitler standing on the street..

So managing myself with my new party attire and high boots (heels doesn’t suit my personality ;) ), we were off to party..

Aah..  my mind was full of checklist and it was stuffed with plenty of things..I am sure each of you reading this would also have experienced such scenarios someday or say may face it regularly..Right na? See I knew it. But don’t worry, it happens; we are sailing on the same boat.

That’s life yaaar.. Sometimes we are chasing dreams, while sometimes responsibilities chases us..hey wait wait.. let me tell you I enjoyed the bash (party) to the fullest.

In this pursuit of life we are surrounded by ample no. of things and priority list, that we start ignoring our own self or ‘ME’ Time. Isn’t it?

Chill guys.. have you ever replaced ‘M’ with ‘W’? turn your Me into We. Let me exemplify with casual instance..,

In office, it seems that we all remain engrossed in our work; but no sooner did our honcho (boss) leave the room, almost all the employees start chatting aplenty of business plans and conclude that we can earn more money and wealth in business rather than this .*** job. Everybody has made the future plan and assured that ‘one day’ gonna settle for business.. As soon as the boss entered, inner fire of each individual gets extinguished or settle down, I mean we all were seated at our desk; exchanging looks and smiles all were back to work and again started tapping the keyboard..

The crux here is, in that mean time, we all had discussed our desires , unfulfilled dreams that are suppressed, that core strength concealed in the corner of heart and will to achieve so many things form this 1 life..thereafter, suddenly, flood of thoughts rushed in my mind with –

• What was the last tune I learned and played in Guitar?
• Whom and when I defeated someone in Badminton?
• How long will I take to complete ( reading) this book?
• Who was that lucky charm (victim) on whom I made a prank last time?
• When and what was the last adventurous ride? And so on and on and on…

These ‘Last Moments’ remains last because I felt 24/7 are merely less to quench m inner fire of passion ; and I am sure you also had your last moments a way back since you actually performed.

Aa Aa. This is not fair.. its not yours or mines last acts, they are still On.. are you asking how? Its not so hard.. see just make slight changes in your life like:

• Instead of watching a match alone, go out and knock your friend’s door (Me to We)
• Instead of taking a nap ( in the nun), gather your pals at your home or any known street around college ( when you guys use to spend incredible time)
• Rather than wasting unusual time in chatting, go for a virtual tour at least (unless you afford the real one;)) or pile of your hour for some other productive work..

Try any of your task from your wish list and make it happen.. its all upto us, either make it or free it from your life..

Nah, don’t misunderstand me I am not saying to run away from any of your personal or professional responsibilities, just saying to shift the attention for yourself by taking everyone together before your 24 hours and 7 days ends.

I am gonna utilize my 24/7 and the next thing in my bucket list is… think think and you will find answer in my next blog… grab your precious time yaaro coz life is just one! Catch you soon..

Cherish The Liveliness..... Alive is Awesome!!

“Apna har din aise jiyo jaise ki akhri ho,

Jiyo to iss pal aise jiyo jaise ki akhri ho….”

Nice song with beautiful lyrics…

Ufff my ears turns hot with this headphones (well it was in my ears since last 3 hrs break free ;)), but still can’t live without music…. Undoubtedly this lyric leads me to write something spunky.

I was wondering that how God is so good to create n number of homosapiens with different facets and weird brains; then it is obvious that if nothing is similar then how cum the psychology would be!

Aha don’t get confused... I am just saying about the mindset of our surroundings! Let me share one of the instances...

I was carefreely going with pals for hangout and heard the voice saying, ‘hey Jhanvi, don’t you think you are like more of a Roamer rather being more responsible @ this age!!!?

I was off from my vehicle and felt like giving a tight slap to this creepy burdensome creature on earth but still I said calmly, ‘don’t you think it’s your responsibility to join rehabilitation centre just a walking mile from this society if at all you move out sometimes from this area and make yourself and surroundings free from your air pollution of smoking. It’s better to look into your own self despite poking into else’s life.”

I moved back to my vehicle and people started starring at me and few monsters are smiling and enjoying the scene... that guy again murmured ‘ye aaj kal ki generation...’

I revert back simply with one of the dialogues of good movies,

“Aaj…

Aaj ek hansi aur baant lo,

Aaj ek dua aur mang lo,

Aaj ek aansu aur pee lo,

Aaj ek zindagi aur jee lo,

Aaj ek sapna aur dekh lo,

          Aaj…

          Kya pata , kal ho na ho..”

People do mind minding their own business, coz until they indulge into else’s matter, food isn’t digested properly.

 I don’t find anything wrong in living this moment of today. Roaming, hangout, chilling, fashion, appearance are the only matters to judge one’s aaj and kal (present and future). Yar apne apne sokh hai, apna apna swag hai... ;)

I am sure that each one of you reading this has undergone with similar sort of affairs somewhere in life. Either you neglect or revert still we cannot control people’s talks! Then let them judge irrespective of knowing you inside-out.

Instead of thinking about ‘log kya kahenge’, move on with ‘your inner conscience and own protocols’. Aur waise bhi  kuch to log kahenge,

logo ka to kam hai kehna..

We all are so lucky that we are alive and experiencing every thrill of life…

All these moments that we are blessed with ought to be cherished no matter how tough the situation is! If we do not stop pondering into past, present is not enough then how can we make our future glorious and fulfilled!

If we look deep into the life there are 50% of the people striving for basic necessities and tries to earn their livelihood in scorching heat barefooted, in rain without shelter and in winter without proper clothes. Aren’t we lucky enough to get all these and we are craving for all comforts and luxury!!?

Life is like a roller coaster, if we perceive good we will stay delighted. Worries and stress should be minimized (think about roadside people) by hugging the life we are blessed with good people, good thoughts, good sharing and good you.

Cherish every moment of today and convert it into celebration with a big curve on face and then see the world that welcomes you open handed. People would definitely be envious by your attitude towards cherishing all stuffs and you gonna conquer the rest! 

Raise a toast to today's moment and promise to make it lively. Cheers!!

Being Alive is Awesome!! See you soon with my next blog.